The other day, I was convicted with my own expectations. I hate expectations.
The reason I hate expectations so much is because it seems like there is no way to have expectations and to serve your spouse in a living way. Hear me out...
If I expect my spouse to wash the dishes when I prepare him food, am I allowing him to actually serve me?
Or if I do laundry for her, am I expecting her to have sex with me? Again, how can she serve me if I am expecting?
Expectations do not allow our spouses to serve us and it may be impossible for us to lovingly serve our spouses. If I expect something in return, I have a hidden agenda and if I have a hidden agenda, am I serving my spouse?
- Do you have expectations for your spouse?
- Are all expectations bad?
- How can you serve your spouse this week?
-Blissful Intimacy
*photo taken from callcentrehelper.com
