Dating Your Spouse

When you first start seeing someone, your feelings are all over the place.  Every little thing is seen as romantic.  Even their flaws are cute.  After a while,  dating your spouse takes the back seat.

I am here to tell you, to ask you, do not stop dating your spouse. Dating now is more important than it was before marriage.  Yes, it takes work but it is so worth it.

Guys and girls are different in this regard. Guys more often than not pursue their wives but the emphasis is on sex! Girls desire romance and may even initiate romance with their spouse. I tell you this because it may be helpful to realize you may be trying to engage with your spouse but the way they feel loved is different than how you would.

Husbands, date your spouse like you used too. Wives, ask your husbands how they feel most loved!

Any thoughts or questions?

-Blissful Intimacy

P.S. Maybe I'll go deeper into this in a later post.

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Surprise

Have you ever thought of surprising your husband or wife? If you are married, most of us have done this at some point. Let me ask a follow up question.

Have you surprised him/her recently?

If so, I want to hear what you have done for her/him?

For women: Have you asked him what he would prefer? What does he like and enjoy? Here's an idea to surprise him; when he comes home from work, already be completely nude.--This may get the vibe going. Or send your husband a sexy text. Just an idea (there are many more). Serve him.

For men: What does your wife enjoy? Ask her! If she does not know, offer to give her a body massage. Whisper something thoughtful in her ear. Bring home something she really enjoys (chocolate, ice cream, wine). If she wants you naked, arrive home and get your clothes off in no time! Men, be patient--value your wife and serve her...it can take some women longer to climax and that is okay. Serve her!

*What are some ways you have surprised your spouse to make him/her feel special?

-Blissful Intimacy

Sex Position: Spanking Time

Photo taken from Women's Magazine.

Today's Sex Position I am calling,  Spanking Time.

 

How does this work? The man will enter the woman in the missionary position.  Once entered and you are ready for the ceremonies to begin, have him adjust/start moving his body over to the right (or left). He should keep going until he is at a 90 degree angel to your body.

 

Essentially,  he is kinda laying over your (female) knee and is perfect for giving him some spankings. 

 

If you are uncomfortable slapping his butt, you could caress his butt and back. Ask him what he would prefer.

 

How does this feel to the wife? If done right, amazing! The penis inserted and you feel more of his thrusting power in motion. So, blissfully awesome!

 

 

♥What do you think? Worth a try?
♡Are you willing to give it a try?
♥Any questions?

 

-Blissful Intimacy

Romancing Your Spouse

Romance.

How are you pursuing to romance your spouse?  What are you doing to romance him/her?

Let me say this,  it is nearly impossible to romance your spouse without knowing him/her.  Obviously you live in the same house and know them a little bit. What I mean is to know them deeper than the surface.

To truly be able to pursue your spouse is to know what they enjoy and how him/her feels loved.

Do you pursue your spouse based on what you like or do you seek his/her happiness in romancing your spouse?

-Blissful Intimacy

(Check back next week for a Sex Position to Try)

Expectations

The other day, I was convicted with my own expectations.  I hate expectations.

The reason I hate expectations so much is because it seems like there is no way to have expectations and to serve your spouse in a living way.  Hear me out...

If I expect my spouse to wash the dishes when I prepare him food, am I allowing him to actually serve me?

Or if I do laundry for her, am I expecting her to have sex with me?  Again,  how can she serve me if I am expecting?

Expectations do not allow our spouses to serve us and it may be impossible for us to lovingly serve our spouses. If I expect something in return, I have a hidden agenda and if I have a hidden agenda, am I serving my spouse?

• Do you have expectations for your spouse?
• Are all expectations bad?
• How can you serve your spouse this week?

-Blissful Intimacy

*photo taken from callcentrehelper.com

Welcome

Welcome to Blissful Intimacy!

While this blog may be in "beta" phase, I appreciate you stopping by! I may add things here and there, but why don't we get started!

This blog is for both men and women. What will be posted? Yes, topics on sex! What Christians are allowed to do together.

The focus of this blog will be to serve your spouse! So, husbands to loving lead their wives and likewise the wives to serve their husbands.

Please view my "about" page for more information.

Sex position, reviews of sex toys, and much more may find their way to a post.

I hope you enjoy!

Ask away!

-Blissful Intimacy