Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Dating Your Spouse

When you first start seeing someone, your feelings are all over the place.  Every little thing is seen as romantic.  Even their flaws are cute.  After a while,  dating your spouse takes the back seat.

I am here to tell you, to ask you, do not stop dating your spouse. Dating now is more important than it was before marriage.  Yes, it takes work but it is so worth it.

Guys and girls are different in this regard. Guys more often than not pursue their wives but the emphasis is on sex! Girls desire romance and may even initiate romance with their spouse. I tell you this because it may be helpful to realize you may be trying to engage with your spouse but the way they feel loved is different than how you would.

Husbands, date your spouse like you used too. Wives, ask your husbands how they feel most loved!

Any thoughts or questions?

-Blissful Intimacy

P.S. Maybe I'll go deeper into this in a later post.